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From My Book "Get your life together" Takiyah Diamond Earth-Angel
Two Can Play That Game- #CHAPTER 7
Oh yes, two can play that game! However, who has the time on their hands to entertain some insecure individual who has nothing else better to do with themselves, and then give you a reason to create negative thoughts in your mind about them because they’re too high on themselves?
They may not know it but, this only leads them into future disappointments and experiences they’ve previously dished out, now coming back to them, rooted from how they treated you but from other people. Now, if you are the person doing the mistreating, these same universal laws apply to you too. I’m just pointing out that no one is excused from the way universal law operates. Generally expressed, the negative energy being projected at them coming from you often ends up triggering back to you, as well as to them. You will continue to be played by them.
They will be affected by someone else who returns the favor of paying them no mind, when they reach out and expect communication from someone else. Why would anyone want to attract this negativity into their life? If you’re dishing this out or taking this in, please stop! Trapped and built up emotions literally kill you!
Truth is, I can’t think of anyone who really wants this in their life. However, many don’t get the point that they are operating with their egoistic mind. It’s a deep rooted insecurity making them feel the need to prove a point, which breeds mental toxins and poisons the subconscious mind creating the undesired outcome and also unexpected health related issues to arise.
This type of pride blocks them from seeing themselves for who they really are, therefore contributing to mental tensions and leading to physical illnesses. Instead they believe in the things they do to make them appear to be who they are not, it makes them feel like they’ve got one up on you. I go deeper in explaining the egoistic mind in a later chapter. Let me show you how you this can get ugly and how it can also be avoided.
You’re expecting them to show up. You’ve called but, they don't pick up. You’ve sent them a text message and they haven’t responded. Honestly, this is where you stop yourself! There’s no need to reach out any further! Allow them to get back to you. Don’t fall into the bucket of emotions that you’ve previously poured out behind someone else’s behavior, which you have no control over. Now, here’s a little tough love.
If you don’t have much self-love or self-respect, you may even go as far as emailing them in denial as if they didn’t already see you’ve reached out. Clearly they’re not interested in dealing with you at the minute.
But take a look at a way this can easily save both parties from being energy jacked and saved from negative vibes boomeranging all over the place. Communication is the key.
Before I do that, let me say it’s one thing if you’re upset and you don't answer because you don't want to entertain drama or perhaps you’re busy or they’re busy and you simply just "missed the call", it happens. Should you have a change of plans, instead of ignoring someone, simply pick up the phone or send a text message saying,
“I apologize, I can’t speak at the minute, can I call you later?” Or, “I’m sorry, I thought I would be able to make it, but I don’t think I will. If things change, I can give you a call when I’m available”.
See how easy that is? No stress, both parties know what’s going on and can choose to wait around or go on about their lives, doing something else with their time. However, if someone deliberately does this to you, not answering calls, disappearing for days before they respond etc.; you may be dealing with a narcissist.
If this is the case, you’re in for an emotional catastrophe anyway and might as well cut the cords now! You’ll never get what you’re seeking from them. It’s a personality disorder stemmed from how they were treated growing up. You can Google it. Take a look at the behavioral traits and patterns and you’ll know who or what you’re dealing with.
Love yourself enough to not be part of the game! If you’re with someone who thinks playing games with you is cool, then you should be cool enough to tell them “tricks are for kids” and they have to find someone else to play with so you don’t hurt yourself.
If they don’t want to grow up, let them be a “Toy’s R’Us kid” without you! You weren’t hired to babysit people’s emotions in need of unconstructive attention. Don’t breed that karma into you and don't feed into the mess. That type of energy is taking you away from your higher self.
Focus on allowing someone, without an egoistic mindset into your life who won’t play games with you because they love you way too much to do that.
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People come into your life for a reason or a season.
You know what you deserve. Settling is not an option.
Do you know what you're WORTH?
You know what you deserve. If you dont value yourself, why would you expect others to value you?
In their mind, they may believe they do but are they really a hinderance or a head start?
Settling never changed the out come of ANYTHING.
You work too hard to still mingle with those who hardly work. You dream too big to mingle with those who have LIMITED VISION.
Your consciousness is too expanded to for chill with people who are
At this point, you just done have time for things that are a waste of your time. If it's draining you, it doesnt serve you.
Go deeper within yourself and use your logic. Where willl this end up?
When you see consistant friction, it's a constistant signal that that isn't what you're supposed to still be experienceing.
You can't save the WORLD until you save yourself.
Being surrounded by people who are still stuck in a paradigm that doesnt apply anymore is limiting you.
You can only function on their level by lowering your vibration to theirs.
STAY UP! They will have to rise to your vibration or drop
out of the picture.
It's universal law.
Author/ Speaker/Mindset Coach
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HOW DO I KNOW THAT I AM AWAKENED
10 Common Signs of Spiritual Awakening
- Ascension Symptoms -
We are living in a time where it is becoming increasingly normal for people to embrace their spiritual sides. Even people that would not use the label of spirituality are open to concepts such as finding their life's purpose and trusting of their own intuition.
Although we live in a world where science, logic and rationality are revered, many people are left questioning the way we are told to live our life. No matter how hard they try to avoid it, the question "there's got to be more to life than this?" niggles away at them.
More and more people are awakening spiritually and are open to more than is available in the material world. The runaway success of "The Secret" DVD goes to show the world was ready to embrace universal laws and has been left wanting more.
Spiritual emergence or ascension is subtle by nature, subtle energy shifts which raise your vibration with huge physical impacts. It is also a personal journey that differs from person to person.
Here are 10 signs of ascension symptoms during spiritual awakening:
Emotional roller coaster
You may find yourself touched and on the verge of tears more often than usual. Crying at the drop of a hat over the news or a display of sentiment that you would not have cried over before is common. You may also find yourself to be more aggressive or angry with people. Some days you will feel depressed and other days full of joy. You truly feel the full range of emotions and yes it is draining, but it's happening for a reason. Stay present to the feelings, feel them fully and they will pass.
Stronger connection to nature
Previously your attitude to nature may have been "take it or leave it". Now, you have a deep appreciation for all of nature, the colours and the shapes. You start to welcome the seasons whereas you used to dread winter. You may also start to like animals you never liked before. I developed a love of cats, much to the amusement of my friends who knew I couldn't stand them before. You're changing and becoming more accepting of things for what they are.
Changes in energy levels
One day you are bouncing off the walls, another day you can't even get out of bed! You've got to roll with this one as much as you can. Sleep, rest or chill on the down days and flow with the energy on the high days. Try and eat healthily and try not to stress or feel guilty, it will eventually stabilize.
A feeling that something has changed within you
You simply feel different, you may not look any different but you know something has changed internally. Your old ways are falling by the wayside and the real you is starting to emerge.
Sudden awareness of recurring patterns or relationships
You may have been living out the same old patterns for decades but suddenly you become aware of it. You may realise that you always destroy what you create, always pick unavailable partners or always attract dependant people - the list is endless. This is great, becoming aware is the first step in eradicating it.
Food intolerance's, allergies and cravings
As you are becoming more sensitive to energy, your body may start to react to foods you have always eaten and/or you may start to crave something different. The intolerance's and allergies may not be permanent so remove them from your diet for a few months and try again later. The cravings may be what your body needs so go with it and trust your body to communicate what it requires.
A desire to "find yourself", change your social group, behavior, job etc.
Your material needs have been met and there is still a longing for more. You may start to question who you really are and start to see that your current life may not have been a conscious choice and is more of a by product. Before you can consciously choose you may find yourself stripping away layers to reconnect with you, the spiritual you.
An increase in occurrences of coincidence
Better known as synchronicity, favorable people and beneficial circumstance start to appear with exactly what you need. Answers to questions are revealed to you through signs and messages. Synchronicity is a sign you are on the right track and that you are aware of these miracles happening around you. The more you notice and take heed, the more they appear so show appreciation for the guidance you are receiving.
Spiritual awakening raises your vibration; this involves a release of blockages which allows abundance to flow to you. Being in alignment with a higher vibration results in quicker and more beneficial manifestations to be received by you. Be aware of your thoughts so you get what you really want or better.
A change in what you read, hobbies etc
You are changing for the better; you are heading for a life of deeper fulfilment and purpose. As you do you will find different ways to pass the time and may not enjoy things you have always done as much anymore. It's fine, new pastimes will interest you just be open to what comes your way.
Change and growth are taking place; the discomfort you experience is increased by resistance. Know that all is exactly as it should be and you are having the human experience of growth, let go and roll with it. When discomfort strikes, ask yourself where or what you are resisting and let it go. They say the darkest part of the night is just before dawn so know that it's for good. and
YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY TO YOUR NEW LIFE on EARTH!
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CHANGE - From the book "Get Your Life Together" Takiyah Diamond"
There’s nothing like the challenges of releasing the familiar. You say to yourself, “I know there’s a better life for me, but I accept the life I live.” It’s normal not being able to pay my bills; not asking for a raise even though I’ve been making the same salary, yet doing more work the past five years. Do you hear how you sound so far? I refuse to accept the person I fell in love with isn’t who I thought they were and honestly it’s pretty much over. I don’t want to risk what I have for something I don’t know, which really isn’t much of but I’ll just keep that rather than allowing something better to come into my life. “I’ll go on day to day accepting the same unhappy life I have.” Why would I do that to myself? Know why? It’s because it’s familiar and people hate change even if it’s for the better.
This marinates in your mind and guess what you’re doing? You already know. Sabotaging your future before it’s even here! I promise. You will get to a breaking point and realize something has to change in order for things to be different. So you ask, but what is it that I need to do? I can answer that. Change your mind change your life. Things come in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. All you have to do is plant new seeds but you rather keep feeding old weeds.
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. The state of your life is nothing more than a reflection of your state of mind. - Viktor E. Frankl. What’s inside of you is what comes out of you. It is wiser to find out than to assume. If you don’t ask, how will you know? You may not get the answer you are seeking all the time but always know in every myth, the truth will reveal itself! The bible says, “Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind” Romans 12:2. Ask, and you shall receive. Seek and you shall find. Knock and the doors shall be opened. Matthew 7:7. Some things in life you just simply have to accept. No matter what you do how you go about it or where you did it at there will be a time you have to look inside yourself and realize you are creating these situation with the thoughts you choose. For example, your boss pisses you off every day you go to work. There is always something he she or even a co-worker does that rubs you the wrong way. At the days end, you need your job you need to make money and that should be your focus. Not worrying about my boss don’t like me, I hate my co-workers etc. What these words, phrases and things do to you is shape your reality going forward. Your boss ends up giving you more problems. The gossip about you around the job increases and now you’re either forced to quit or you get fired because you’re sick of the madness. But you must understand what you dish out you get back. So if they’re talking about you, so what! That’s their problem not yours. It’s how you portray yourself and what you think of yourself that truly speaks as to who you are. So don’t be a reflection of someone else. Always be the bigger person and allow others to be a reflection of you. Not you a reflection of them. Once you fully acknowledge and appreciate where you are, you've taken an important step in getting where you want to be. Don't let anyone hold you back from your truth. Don't expect anyone to do it for you. Step up to the challenge, believe in yourself, and do what it takes. Nothing is more insincere than phony enthusiasm. Don't fake it. Be truly enthusiastic. Get excited, and let it show. Sometimes we don’t understand why we are so attached to people who no longer serve us. Many times when our heart says yes we say no and when our heart says no we try to convince ourselves yes. There comes a point when it’s beyond just trying to keep the peace between you and others. How can you be at peace with others if you don’t have complete peace of self within you? Always remember you can’t please everybody. But you can please yourself. No matter what heights you get to in life whether you’re doing well or bad some people just will not like you; and guess what? So what! They don’t have to. How people treat you is their karma, how you react to the way they treat you is yours. Just keep in mind you are the prize and they will be privileged to be in your company should they deserve to be in your presence and mean you well. Don’t cut off your blessings because someone else is lacking on being a blessing to someone else. It’s not your problem. Change is the greatest choice God could have ever created. Don't be afraid to make the change. It will serve you.